Love?
What is that to YOU?
It is something completely different to everyone.
What is that to YOU?It is something completely different to everyone.
In the dictionary love is clearly an affection toward someone or something. To feel is to love, but to most Love is physical, materialistic. Anyone can be "in love" now a days.
So how can we tell what Love is?
Love can be having someone that supports your every move, someone that keeps you financially stable, it can be someone who makes you smile every hour of everyday.
Love can be holding hands and walking in harmony or sitting at opposite sides of a train while people watching.
Who can really define Love? Not I... No you... But I can define Love for myself.
Love to me is an array of emotions, thoughts, events....
Love comes... then fades into black... to only come back around ::a cycle:: (speaking of real Love of course)
What is real Love? The act of doing right for that person, trusting that he/she will do the same for you if it were presented.... Feeling but also KNOWING he/she their heart beats for you...
Love comes with sacrifice and compromise. This idea will bring a rational debate :i am sure: Some will argue that true Love should not need sacrifice nor compromise because true Love should bring two people together that will balance each other and intertwine their thoughts as one. I beg to differ...
I debate that two people should have their own sense of life. Yes they should come to agreement on most but not ALL things, everything should be coherent of both parties. Yes one should balance the other but have their own ideals and goals. It should be as if your living YOUR life but with your best friend along with you for the journey... Well that is what I believe...
That is where my definition of "Love" differs...
I appreciate the magical fantasy Cinderella and her Prince type of Love but living your life searching for that to me is just unrealistic. The picnics, rose pedals, candles, notes on your pillow, writings on your mirror, flowers at your job, long talks and walks on the beach i think are special moments to definitely experience but to hope for that will ruin your perception in what YOUR own real fairytale could be!
Just be open minded, be yourself, do not expect, just live and LOVE will find you!
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